result of the inherent mindset of the person who got dumped. You feel timid and afraid while your ex feels confident and secure. If you stop being afraid, he won’t have any power over you. I’ve emphasized before that personality and other aspects are just facades. The true essence is the battle of charm. If…

Many people encounter bottlenecks during the no contact period, where they struggle to convince themselves, can’t persist, and end up breaking the silence. There are a few common reasons for this: 1. Fear of losing contact completely; 2. Fear that the other person has found someone new; 3. Having a strong desire and need for…

After a breakup, whether you can respond or not, the principle is to not reply at all. The principle is to ignore them completely. You should convey a sense of indifference towards him, ignore him, and not regard him as a person at all. If you must meet and maintain a friendship, maintain a superficial…

If you continue to maintain contact with your ex, they can continue to enjoy the benefits you offer. However, it’s important to remember that when your ex decided to break up, they lost interest in you and no longer see your positive qualities. In fact, they may even feel extreme annoyance towards you. On the…

There is a significant difference between flexible cut-off and relaxed cut-off. Firm cut-off can lead to fluctuating thoughts, where at times high energy makes you feel better without your ex, while at other times you blame yourself entirely. In moments of unbearable restraint, you may contact your ex. On the other hand, flexible cut-off allows…

Do not seek advice from ChatGPT on what to do after a breakup because romantic relationships involve human nature, and only humans can truly understand its essence. The first thing to do after a breakup is to “cut off contact.” Regardless of any mistakes you may have made, remember that it’s crucial to completely disappear…