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Difficulties encountered in disconnection
result of the inherent mindset of the person who got dumped. You feel timid and afraid while your ex feels confident and secure. If you stop being afraid, he won’t have any power over you. I’ve emphasized before that personality and other aspects are just facades. The true essence is the battle of charm. If…
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How to deal with the bottleneck period during no contact
Many people encounter bottlenecks during the no contact period, where they struggle to convince themselves, can’t persist, and end up breaking the silence. There are a few common reasons for this: 1. Fear of losing contact completely; 2. Fear that the other person has found someone new; 3. Having a strong desire and need for…
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Precautions for disconnection
After a breakup, whether you can respond or not, the principle is to not reply at all. The principle is to ignore them completely. You should convey a sense of indifference towards him, ignore him, and not regard him as a person at all. If you must meet and maintain a friendship, maintain a superficial…
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The nature of disconnection
If you continue to maintain contact with your ex, they can continue to enjoy the benefits you offer. However, it’s important to remember that when your ex decided to break up, they lost interest in you and no longer see your positive qualities. In fact, they may even feel extreme annoyance towards you. On the…
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The true essence of cutting off contact.
There is a significant difference between flexible cut-off and relaxed cut-off. Firm cut-off can lead to fluctuating thoughts, where at times high energy makes you feel better without your ex, while at other times you blame yourself entirely. In moments of unbearable restraint, you may contact your ex. On the other hand, flexible cut-off allows…
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The first thing to do after a breakup (Main Content)
Do not seek advice from ChatGPT on what to do after a breakup because romantic relationships involve human nature, and only humans can truly understand its essence. The first thing to do after a breakup is to “cut off contact.” Regardless of any mistakes you may have made, remember that it’s crucial to completely disappear…
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The First Step After a Breakup (Introduction 2)
The ultimate goal for many is reconciliation. However, seeking reconciliation through desperate pleading is a rather low-level approach. What everyone hopes for is to earnestly plead and wait for the other person to respond with a parental-like tone, saying, “Okay, since you acknowledge your mistake, I will forgive you. Just make sure you don’t repeat…
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The secret of love
Everyone wishes to experience falling in love, but what exactly is love? Why do we develop feelings for someone, and why does love sometimes have an expiration date? The common explanation is that it’s a matter of fate or serendipity, but there are underlying natural patterns at play. This blog aims to uncover the secrets…
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The First Step After a Breakup (Introduction 1)
After a breakup, it’s common for individuals to have an immediate instinct to try and win their ex-partner back. They search the internet for various methods, learn different persuasive techniques, and speculate about their ex-partner’s psychology and preferences. They go to great lengths to lower their own stature and present themselves in a subservient manner,…